Total denial and PFM

Do cucks often end up being completely denied by their wives?

We're no longer in the lifestyle, but when we were our sex life skyrocketed briefly but then tampered off to mostly me going down on her while she told me about their session.

Now a few years later, my wife prefers that i pleasure her orally/toys whenever she wants for which im rewarded with small penis humiliation and ballbusting. Im also denied orgasms and haven't been allowed to cum since last july.