How to Get a Girl to Like Ballbusting (MY EXPERIENCE + Q/A)

Hey guys! I recently shared some of my bb experiences in my stories "My First Ballbuster," and it got me thinking... How does a guy introduce a girl to this type of fetish. I would like to start a discussion on this post to see other guys experiences/opinions on this topic, so I will start with my own:

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I pretty much explained how I got my first girlfriend to bust my balls In my first two posts on this subreddit. To summarize, "Ashley" was constantly curious as to what turned me on, and when she found out I liked to be ballbusted, she kinda took the "balls" and ran with it. (See what I did there)

However, ballbusting isn't always an easy fetish to drop on someone. (I know this from experience) After Ashley and I parted ways, I was in the market for a new love, and new ballbuster at that. I feel that (and this is just an opinion, don't take offense) a lot of my fellow Ballbusting enjoyers look for their partners with that being at the forefront of their decision making. I think that can sometimes be a mistake, as well as lead people into less than ideal circumstances. Look, I know how obvious this is, but a relationship depends on so much more the sex/sexual fulfillment. I am not speaking to those who looking for hookups (Obviously sex would then be the most important factor) I have never been a "hook up" type of guy.

Hopefully by sharing what happened with me, I can help someone that may currently be in the situation that I was in my college days.

When I met my current GF, she was actually dating someone back in her hometown. (I did not know that when we met) As fate would have it she and I had several classes together one semester in college, so we began to become friends. When she did start mentioning having a BF, I went to back off, but she wanted to talk to me about how bad her relationship was, so I figured to hear her out. Eventually we had a late night out at a party, and she kissed me. A line was crossed and I said that I was not comfortable with her cheating on her BF with me, so she agreed to break up with him. A couple months pass and she and I officially started dating. I knew from the start that I was dating a girl with little sexual experience to that point, so I knew to be very careful when it came to requesting/discussing sexual fantasies.

What worked for me was letting the girl take the lead, by affirming her actions during intimacy. From early on, I signalled to my GF that I liked having my balls "played with." This was a good way to get her used to the fact that I liked that area of my body heavily stimulated. I told her it really turned me on when she "massaged" my balls, and when she would I continuously told her that she could be rougher with them, and that it felt good. Having a feel for what she was comfortable with was very important. Progress was not fast, It took me maybe 6 months of our relationship to upgrade from her squeezing my balls to actually punching them. I remember when I first got my GF to punch my balls was when I was on the verge of an orgasm, and I told her that if she hit them it would speed up the process. She laughed at first, not believing me, but after she gave me a few punches she was shocked to see my orgasm come so quickly.

Soon, it became a common practice for my GF to whack my sack when I was nearing orgasms. But I obviously wanted ballbusting incorporated more often. It took me a year and a half before we're actually ballbusting. To this day (3 years of dating) my GF laughs when kicking my nuts, because to her it is just a weird sexual request.

I know that some may disagree with my experience, because many people think that couples should explicitly sit down and talk about their sexual fantasies. My response would be, "What's the fun in that?!" I strongly believe that if the first time me and my current GF became intimate, I blatantly told her that I wanted her to hit my in the testicles, she would have become very uncomfortable, and maybe even not have continued our relationship. The bottom line is that every girl is different. However, I don't think you should give up on a girl that doesn't pick up on your fetishes right off the bat (Like my ex Ashley did) Even though my current GF was not naturally dominant, she hits my nuts way better and more often than Ashley ever did. I believe most girls have a ballbusting side to them, and once you bring it out, then your nuts are in for a ride. My GF has always liked a strong male dominated sexual experience, and I don't deny that from her, but we have evolved our sex into a perfect mix of both. I can pound her in doggy while pulling her hair one minute, and then the next minute she has her foot pinning my balls to the floor.

Also, in my experience with other fetishes. Such as foot fetishes (I have one), ballbusting was way easier to get a girl on board with. Despite Ashley's dominant personality, she outright told me, "I hope you don't like feet." For some reason there are girls that are just flat out repulsed by men with that fetish. (To my dismay) My currently GF didn't get onboard with my foot fetish until THIS PAST YEAR of our relationship! I had to ease foot play into our relationship, whereas I believe that there is something evolutionary in women that makes ballbusting appealing (or at least amusing) to them.

So what do you guys think? Am I flat out wrong and stupid? Or did I make any sense with this post?