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12 Days of Sensual Ballbusting: Day 2 - Asking permission and exploring boundaries

Day 2 - It's important to ask for permission when you do this kind of stuff, even if you don't intend to cause pain. My partner understands that if they let me know they don't like what I'm doing, I'll stop right away and apologize but my goal is to never get that far. So with that understood, when I'm with someone new I'll ask them if there's anywhere that it's not ok for me to touch them or I'll just straight up ask them if i can touch their balls. If I'm allowed then I'll start lightly touching them and doing different things like lightly tapping with my finger tips, asking "is this ok?" while slowly getting faster and harder, doing little slaps and getting more intense.

I like grabbing a guys balls when they're hanging low and squeezing them. First I'll start off by putting my hand below his balls and reaching up until I'm just lightly touching the bottom of his sack with my fingertips and I'll stroke it a little bit, giving it little pats with my fingers. I like to reach further under so that his balls are sitting in the palm of my hand and then pull my hand back, holding my fingers together, rubbing my fingers along the back of the testicles and softly flicking his testicles with my fingertips as I get to the end, then repeating the motion again. Then I wrap my fingers around his balls and I gently squeeze, like squeezing an avocado to see if it's ripe, gently pressing my fingers into the soft flesh and feeling a slight give. If this is my first time with someone I'll ask them "do you like it when I squeeze your balls like this?" before continuing. If they give me the green light to go ahead, I'll slowly increase the pressure to that of a firm hand shake. I'm usually stimulating their penis while I'm squeezing and gently rolling his balls around in my hand. I'll vary the pressure as I massage his balls then I squeeze firmer as I roll them around, feeling them squishing like silly putty as I gently kneed them with my fingers, letting my fingers dig in ever so slightly. Slowly increasing the pressure, paying attention to every response my partner has to make sure he's okay. The goal is for him to be enjoying himself, if he doesn't seem to be enjoying himself I stop and check in.

My goal is bust hard enough to reach maximum pleasure without things getting too intense that he needs to stop me. I increase the intensity slowly as I play with his cock and let him play with my body. As he gets more aroused he can take harder shots or harder squeezing. I want to hear him get loud as I play with him but only because the pleasure is so intense that he can barely contain himself. Maybe throwing in a firmer, playful slap from time to time that comes as a bit of a shock but turns out to just be a nice surprise because by then he's so excited that it feels good. Anytime I've been stopped by a man it's always just them calmly letting me know "oh hey, not so hard/fast" or "could you readjust your grip?" (if I've been holding onto his dick or balls for too long with my hand in the same position) but if I ask if he's ok he says yeah he's fine. The intensity is increased nice and slow so that he's not getting a really unexpected hard hit that's going to make him groan and curl up in pain, he can speak up when things just start to creep out of his comfort level before they become too painful.

*Ok everyone, that's the end of the sexy talk but if you are interested in reading more about my vision for this account, head on over to the comments section for Day 1. There were some engaging comments that I responded to down there. Thank you to those who commented, responding really helped me articulate what I wanted to express about what I'm doing here.*