Experiences in the kink

Hello fellow freaks. First some background. I’m a long time enjoyer of this kink. Originally, I had a ton of anxiety about sharing it and went years without ever truly exploring it with my partners. However, as I became more sexually experienced, I realized that it’s really not as off putting to women as I was afraid of AND every single partner was interested in doing it with me. I see a lot of questions on this sub regarding how to go about it with women and it’s honestly as simple as any sexual relationship. Be honest, respectful, and open. Asking someone you don’t have that level of relationship with to bust you is just about as concerning as asking for any other sexual act.

All that aside, this post is about an experience I had a few years ago. I was freshly out of a relationship and a girl I worked with at a previous job was going to come visit me (we lived in separate states). We had been flirtatious for a long time and she expressed interest, despite never hooking up. I was in relationships and it never worked out. That being said, this was an opportunity to release all the pent up sexual energy and she would be hanging around for a week. I had never discussed ballbusting with her, but she is fit, tiny, and flexible. Very much my type, especially for ballbusting.

When she came out we discussed our likes and preferences in bed. She was into some lighter pain stuff and domination - choking etc, but not too extreme. I find most women do like to be dominated in bed. I told her about ballbusting and simply dove right into it. I even showed her some porn to give her an idea of what I was talking about and she laughed but embraced it fully. I also mentioned my enjoyment of thigh high stockings, heels and that overall look.

So, we made a plan to really get into it the next day after I came home from work. When I arrived, she was wearing super slutty heels and thigh highs with lingerie that was mostly see thru. It was perfect. We had a drink and then went to my bedroom. She told me to strip down and then proceeded to tie my legs to the base of the bed, spread wide. We already discussed safe words and everything. She had a sip of her drink and looked at me, then put it down and walked over. I’m so turned on already, I want to reach out and touch her but before I can, she grabs ahold of my balls, hard. It took my breath away. Before I could even say anything, she pulls her other hand back and delivers slap after slap to my balls. It was harder than I’ve ever received (typically I’d find women went pretty light to start out). I was saying my safe word in desperation, begging for mercy but she was slow to stop and wouldn’t let go of my balls. I was completely helpless. All of this turned me on even more and it felt like my fantasy come true.

She stepped away and had another sip of her drink and told me to sit down on the bed. My legs still tied and spread apart. She then stepped on my balls, cursing them between the toe of her heel and my bed. I pulled her close to try and make out with her, mostly for a break from the pain but she wanted to kept hurting me. At this point I asked if she wanted to try a kick. Kicks are my favorite method hands down. She untied my legs, turned me around, and had me bend over with my legs wide apart. She slipped off her heels, making her about 5” shorter, then swung her stockinged foot into my balls perfectly and as hard as I’ve ever felt. I was floored. I went down clutching my balls and she simply walked downstairs to make another drink. Said nothing.

When she came back up we fucked and it was absolutely amazing. The next morning I showed her my sore balls and she laughed and squeezed them.

Anyway, I think back to this experience a lot. How she embraced my kink so well. I’m pretty sure she watched some videos that day while I was working, planning out exactly how she would fuck me up.