About Me, Chat Rules and FAQ

About Me as an Author:
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As difficult as it is to do when it comes to ballbusting content, I try to offer my readers a bit of a safe zone that most ballbusting story authors don't. I do this by making the majority of the harsher scenes take place in dreams, fantasies or flashbacks so it adds a layer of separation between the characters and what is being described and I don't write graphic scenes that involve permanent damage. I also enjoy finding ways to add layers of separation between character dynamics so that I can explore certain taboo types of topics without stepping outside of my comfort zone.

I like to write stories that focus on compassion and empathy. I understand the shame and fear that a person can experience when they have this fetish. I know the shady feeling of lurking in ballbusting forums, trying to understand why this kind of stuff appeals to you and hoping to hell that no one finds out you are into this. Some of the stories I write are meant to feel like a comforting hug rather than a brutal busting session. Even if lighter content doesn't sound like your type of thing, I encourage you to give it a chance. You may find that you like it more than you expected.

I cover a large range of ideas, dynamics and perspectives in an attempt to offer more variety to the genre while mixing in a special ingredient to some of the stories. That special something can be hard to describe but I'll try: Have you ever read something or heard a song and it felt like the person who wrote it read your mind? As if they knew exactly how you felt or what you needed to read/hear at the time? Have you ever experienced art in any form that made you feel seen? Validated? Cathartic? I have and I fucking love that shit! Don't you?

I try to write stories that resonate with people that way. I love to be able to give that to people. Not every story is going to be everyone's cup of tea, but what isn't one person's cup of tea is another's favorite kind. When I manage to hit the target just right, I encourage you to share your experience with me. It is very rewarding to me when I hear that my work resonates with people. It's this rush that makes me feel like my mind has just intimately connected with another person's and it motivates me to write more.

I love hearing from my readers but please be sure to follow the chat rules.

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**Chat rules:**
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*Updated March 17, 2025*

I mainly allow DMs to connect with fans of my work so they can privately express their appreciation. If you would like to send fan mail, here are the rules:

- Don't expect a conversation. Say what you want to say in your first message. While I appreciate praise for my writing, I will typically just respond with a thank you to acknowledge I received it.

- Don't ask me for personal information, this includes personal experiences and opinions.

- Don't contact me about story requests, JOI, roleplay, etc. I will not make free personalized content for you.

*Please do not contact me if you are underage.*

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If you are an established member of the r/ballbustingstories community and have something you want to discuss without the strict boundaries of my chat rules, please state your purpose in your first message.

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Social Links - This is my only account that I post content on. I made a bluesky account just in case anything happens to my Reddit account but I don't know how active I will be on there @strangesympathy.bsky.social

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**FAQ**
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*Updated Nov 28, 2024*

Is there anything you won't write about?
- extremely violent scenes involving sharp objects, gore, castration, rupture, etc.
- I won't rule anything out but unless I come up with a really interesting idea I try to avoid the common tropes that always get written about. Examples: self defense/martial arts/sparring or curiosity stories (does it really hurt that much?). I might write that kind of thing as a small part of a story like the sparring in Chapter 1 in Strange Sympathy but not as the focus for the story. I try to write stories that offer something different and there are already a lot of great authors writing those kinds of stories.
- familial is one thing incest is another. I will write familial but I don't feel comfortable making things very sexual between family members. No judgement to those who write that or want to read it but it is outside of my comfort zone.

*Sorry to disappoint anyone who was hoping to see any stories like this from me. r/ballbustingstories has authors who do write these kinds of stories. If you would like some recommendations, you could try posting a request on the forum and someone else can point you in the right direction.*

Why do I like ballbusting? How did I get into it?
- That's personal. Lauren in Strange Sympathy is the fictional answer to this question, I gave her a lot of my traits and made up different reasons for why she is the way she is that are similar to my own experiences.

*My content is for adult entertainment purposes only. That includes my non-fiction posts. I am just a lady on the internet who is sharing her thoughts and experiences. I am not qualified to give professional advice on this topic. I am not a medical professional and will not give out medical advice. If you want to know if anything I write about is safe, do your own research.*