love for a sub! (something positive, just cause)🤍

I’m so grateful that my first sub was and still is a gentle soul. he doesn’t like degradation so it really helped honing my skill of “soft” domming. I may be not be suited for degradation and I’m so glad I figured that out early! It feels like fate.
It’s frustrating when people assume findom is mercilessly degrading men and leaving them broke. I have genuine respect for my sub and I make sure I dish out as much praise (if deserved) as possible and he 99.9% of the time deserves it. he’s not rich, but I would choose him before any “whale” who isn’t devoted.
he’ll probably see this because he be lurkin’ lol. but, he deserves a little praise, why not? probably an added bonus that it’s public praise lol
this can also be motivational for dommes who don’t feel “dominant.” dominance is unique and personal to everyone. don’t feel forced to be that “fuck you, pay pig” type of domme if that isn’t your personality! I almost did that when I first started. find your own style and own it! 🤍