I'm ashamed to reveal my kink

Hi,I have a headscissoring kink where the woman squeeze man’s head with her thighs.I also have some other kinks which are closer to submissive side but this is my biggest kink.The problem is im ashamed to reveal this fetish because i feel like women will see me as a less masculine man.Is there anyone who also experienced this feeling with kinks ? Im looking for your advice.Thanks in advance 🙏