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How would you help an average man get a girlfriend?

How would women teach men how to pursue sexual relationships with women? Is it something you believe you have the capacity to do?

Keep in mind that the end goal is a sexual relationship, not a platonic one. How would you avoid guiding him into endless platonic relationships? How would you coach him into making his intentions clear in a way that is appealing and not off putting? Could you make a man ick-proof? Could you help a man who was average in looks, income and social status find a girlfriend of relatively equal measure?

Maybe consider it a part of a wacky gameshow deal where if he successfully moves from strangers to a couple with a woman, you win a million after taxes. So you are invested in making it work.

You get 6 months. You get a 5'8, plain faced 28 year old. All his hair. He makes 50k annual. Skinny-fat. He's got like 3 guy friends, no female friends. Studio apartment, no roommates. Nut allergy. He's apolitical. Likes lord of the rings. Drives for Amazon. Wears hoodies and jeans. Not hot, not ugly. Racially ambiguous.

What's your strategy. How do you overhaul his look? Where do you tell him to meet women? How shall he approach them, how should he initiate dates, text. How should he manage his social media and dating app accounts to make himself appealing? Do you put him on a gym routine or do you want to risk believing women don't care about muscles that much? Remember a million dollars is on the line. Might it be worth getting him to embody some toxic traits? Or should he go the good guy route. No prize money unless he actually smashes.

Let's hear it. I have a feeling it will be a bit more complicated than 'just treat women like human beings'. Im interested to see if women think they can make an average man viable in 2025.