How can I make sure that when I airdrop it stays in the order that I selected them in and airdrops directly to the photos app?

I have 2 problems. 1 being that when I airdrop photos and videos from my phone to my mac it doesn’t stay in the same order (because the order I save them isn’t the same as the chronological order of the photos since when I saved them some of them kept their original dates from the websites, and bc some of of the videos just get pushed after the photos which is really annoying since I want them to be in the same order as I saved them in). And 2 being the fact that when I airdrop photos and videos to my mac they automatically get sent to the downloads file, and when I try to send them to the photos app their order gets all mixed up, not to mention the fact that the downloads file doesn’t order them in the same way the photos app on my phone does.