Tips for dealing with a desensitized clit

To really maximize the impact of clitoral torture, the clit has to be (1) sensitized and (2) restrained and exposed. The second point is easier than it sounds: clamps hold the clit in place and pull the hood back, pumping and banding keep it plump and visible, and pussy spreaders expose the whole area. Even a delicately applied pair of chopsticks fastened around the nub can do the trick.

The first point - making and keeping the clit sensitized - is trickier. Pumping can do the trick, but it has its own caveat: if the clit gets too sensitive, the victim may orgasm during the torture. If that's the goal, pumping is a valid solution, but if the torture is really meant to be just that - torture - an orgasm is exactly the opposite of what you want.

My solution? A solidly ruined orgasm prior to the torture session to over-sensitize her clit and keep any potential full orgasms at bay during the session. She'll be even more aroused and desperate than with teasing or pumping alone, and the torture will be more effective.

Once she's restrained, start with teasing and pleasure. If you're preparing her for a punishment, this has the added benefit of lulling her into a false sense that she's in for a pleasurable session. Maybe edge her a couple times (but don't overdo it - wouldn't want her to enjoy it too much) - and then give her permission. Tell her to tell you when she's going to cum, and when she does - stop.

Stop stimulation just as she's about to topple over the edge and watch the show. Her pussy will contract on nothing, her clit will stretch out to reach for more stimulation. She'll be desperate, but don't give in. The most she'll feel is a few tiny tendrils of pleasure in her labia and pelvis, but the bulk of her orgasm will be cut off.

What won't be cut off is the post-orgasm oversensitivity. Have your tools ready and watch until the contractions slow but don't quite stop, and that's the moment to strike. If you want something easy, clamp the bulb right at the exposed tip and watch her hips buck. Even if she can normally tolerate a lot of pressure without complaint, she'll really feel the pinch on her fully erect, denied clit. Have her do something for your pleasure while her clit is clamped, then send her on her way without a real orgasm and with a sore little nub.

Or if you want something more active, clamp across the base to hold the clit still and break out the ruler. This is a great option if it's a real punishment session. See how well she can count the strokes and don't stop until her naughty bulb starts to purple.

Happy torturing!