Pre everything trans girl, looking for some input.

Context: I'm a mid 20s trans girl, I haven't had the opportunity/funds for anything surgical(though I don't want more than an orchi), and I'm not in a good situation to start Hrt, as I'd 1) like to freez sperm first and I can't aford it, and 2) I'm currently stuck living with a phobic relative.

To make a long story short, I'm almosy fully in the closet, just dress fem during certain events.

With all this in mind, there is a local lesbian meet up, once a month. A lot of people go there to date, and it's a very trans supportive space, so I fell comfortable there.

I feel disingenuous a lot of the time, as I really mainly live and pass as a guy in my day to day life, and even being optimistic it's gonna be a year or two before I transition.

I'm looking for input and perspectives on this. Imagine we meet at this event, and hit it off, you're into me, and aware I'm trans. How would you feel finding out the rest? I'm not here looking to date, but I'm also open to something if it works out, and I don't wanna be misleading people