AITA for telling my partner I don't want her to set up another birthday celebration for me

There's context to this so hear it out.

I 27m have been dating my 25f girlfriend for a little under 3 years and my birthday happened recently and i just need someone to ask about this. I don't celebrate birthdays as I believe there's no reason to but she didn't like that reason. Well everything i wanted to do i couldn't because of her but we made sure to do everything she wanted to do on my birthday while she told her family members how she was very thoughtful and considerate about what I wanted. Two days later we were on the phone and she was bragging about how great it was before I told her it kind of sucked and that honestly this was one of the most disappointing birthdays I've had especially after my expectations were pretty much nonexistent. I explained to her about the things I wanted to do and how maybe next year instead of asking me what I want to do just so you can ignore me than act like you are on a pedestal after and instead just don't do anything.