My first time hiring a Dom to bust me. AMA
I've been into ballbusting for a while now. Watching/reading online first. Not entirely certain how it started. Other than 1 incident in middle or high school, I've never been hit really (intentionally or accidentally). But it's been an interesting for a while now. BB and femdom.
After seeing an AMA for a ballbusting dom here on reddit, I looked her up and realized you can look up Dominatrixes in basically any area. So I started inquiring locally, find someone I liked (differentiator for me was her more verbose communication that made me comfortable I understood what to expect).
Set up my first session and, after a last minute reschedule, we meet for the first time. At this point I've had about 3 people do some light slapping or knees in various settings. 2 in a strip club. But at this point I've never been kicked. Ive also never been bound. I showered per her instructions and came out naked. I enjoy the power dynamic of CFMN.
We started with a table. She laid me down and tied my arms and legs. After which she bound my balls using rope, giving me increasingly harder slaps until I told her I was at my limit. She then tied to separate my balls and squeezed me some. I'm between she would tease me. She started using a vibrator on my cock. Which was a new experience for me. When she up-ed from a smaller vib to a Hitachi and I didn't last long at this point. We tried some P.O.T., which I am also interested in, but with the power of the Hitachi, I couldn't take much, and had to ask her to stop pretty quickly.
At this point she untied me and let me clean up. We still had some time left, so I asked for some kicks. This was the first kicks I was going to ever take. She gave me the option to hold onto some overhead restraints or to be tied into them. I chose to hold on. I stood in front of her, legs spread. She showed me how hard she would hit me by hiting my chest with her palm. Then she proceeded to kick me. Her skill in hitting with a set force, increasing until I told her to was impressive. She threw some squeezes in between. I wasn't able to take much after busting earlier due to P.O. sensitivity.
Afterwards we chatted some until I was ready to shower again. She let me calm down for a couple minutes before I left. It was an amazing experience. I'm going back to her again soon for some more and different scenarios.