[Tw harems, feminists, misogynists] Are feminists and misogynists both pro harem?

A misogynist will make a harem of wives and have them compete for his attention to keep them in line.

A strong feminist woman has every right to take care of herself and go after any man she wants. Seems like if they are going after strong men, those will be the same men with a pool of women around them competing for them.

So in one case the man makes the harem, and in the other the women make it for him?

Maybe someone can knock me off the fence on this one.