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[TW: physical security] A Game of Truth or Dare - looking to discuss/challenge, playful

Have you ever thought you could never be a domme? It's the type of empowerment feminism rarely discusses as it focuses on economics, wealth, and such most often. There are ways to domme by those means, but right now I want to stick to the physical.

Feminists have long debated whether teaching women self-defense is effective (or whether it just encourages victim blaming), or whether only teaching men better behaviors is the way to go. This will be in favor of self-defense, and how learning details can de-mystify and build confidence. Many of the same tools provide the mentality and techniques needed to top.

I'm looking for women who want to explore physical differences, confront taboos, and challenge them. I am likely bigger, faster, and in many ways stronger as is said again and again. But is that the whole story?

Format: I challenge you to a game, a variant of truth or dare. These dares will be about how to physically top a man. I will dare you to do something, and you can do it or tell the truth about why you won't or think you can't, and then we discuss or debate.

This will guide you through some basic skills for comfort with them, and work you through mental barriers.

Please open by saying whether you want to talk briefly or over some time. Bonus points to those who like to take their time and like slap-stick and absurdity in their kink! Thanks!