Feminism: A tale of two testes

Feminists have me confused on balls. On one hand they are telling me how weak and sensitive they are and how "pussy" should be the term used for being tough. Great, so they are a weakness.

But wait! There's more! Post after post is calling men out on not being tough, not acting out of strength, not taking the risk and "having the balls" to actually put them in their place.

As a humble gender traitor just trying to figure out masculinity, could some feminists come help clear this up? Maybe I can embody the balls you all say you're looking for! Though, as usual, I've come to expect the misogynists to have the better insight around here.