Went to my First Session last week! Advise for fellow beginners

Hello all!

I have had a ballbusting fetish since I was about 13 and now in my late 20s had my first session last week. Thought I would start a thread for beginners or other newbies who are on the fence about going through it like I was.

First of all if you are on the fence just DO IT! It was so much fun and I can't wait for my next session with my dom. It took me 2 years of lurking and being too scared to go through it but I finally went through with it. My dom knew I was new and took care of me knowing i was just starting out. We even (ik some people might give me shit for this) started with a protective cup first then transitioned to soft cup then ended the night with no cup kicks. It was a nice progression to get me into it and i highly recommend for new people to start out with that. Again I know cup busting is frowned upon but I wanted to start with it and work my way into it.


***Tips***

1.) Do your research and pay up for a Professional. Especially if this is your first time I wouldn't mess around with some random girls that dont know what they are doing. Save up your money and spend good money on a quality, well known, dom. Read reviews and do your homework so you don't fall for scams or anything.

1b) Dont reach out to a dom until you are serious and ready for a session. Don't waste their time.

2.) Totally okay to be nervous my heart rate was going crazy before I entered her hotel room I was super nervous but once I got through the door she made me feel comfortable and ready to go.

3.) Come prepared and know what you want. I even wrote some notes on my phone for some ideas encase I forgot. Sometimes I get so worked up and nervous I forget about some of the scenarios or ideas I had. Nothing worse than half way through your session and you are struggling for ideas what to do next.

4.) That being said don't be afraid to engage your dom for suggestions or ideas. It is their job after all they are experts lol

5.) Day of session: Be on time and be showed clean and well groomed. This is just common polite sense.

6.) Go slow. Ik a lot of us want to jump in and take these huge kicks like our fantasies are but its not smart. Start slow and work your way up. Even start with a cup on if you need it. I did.

7.) Communicate with your partner. Communication and safe words are key even for mild stuff.

8.) Have fun! Don't wait! I wish I started years ago but I cannot wait for my next session!

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Be interested to hear from others too! Or if you guys have any questions let me know!