[M4F] What makes you feel sexy?

I love it when my partner feels sexy, so I'd like to chat with you about what makes you feel like you're hot.

Some questions you could answer in a first message to get the ball rolling:

Is it getting cat-called, or hit on? Maybe it's knowing what makes a man tick and having him around your finger? It's could be the opposite, and you like the attention that comes from him figuring you out? Do you have trouble thinking of yourself as sexy, or does it come easily for you? Has your view of yourself and what makes you sexy changed with time? How important do you think beauty standards are, and do they play a role in how you view yourself?

A little bit about me: I'm Dan, I'm a middle-aged straight white man. I lean submissive, but can switch. I don't think sexuality is a stagnant thing, and also believe that talking about it makes it richer, better, and safer. I like to get into the details, and separate nuances, particularly in why someone likes a kink.

I'll gladly answer any questions you have for me. Short term chat is preferred for this topic, and I'm always open for it.