Some advice for safe happy ballplayers to begin the game!

Interested in couples ballplay? Absolutely! The pain, the control, the mischief, and the gift or theft of power can really get us all going. Here's some advice from experience that may help you get started comfortably. Honesty is sexy, so show it!

1. TRUST! Make sure that you and your girl are on the same page. Discover what you both like, why, and what you want to explore. Read, watch videos, and made sure that y'all have the same goals and ideas in mind. This makes for a smooth ride.
2. ENJOY! Most girls give nicely when they are treated well. Ideally she gets wet and you get hard. Let her laugh and have fun - the rest is easy. Most balls are made to get knocked around some, so don't fall or cry at the first touch. Girls don't usually like for you to be the one pussy dancing. :) Keep the cock out of the way too, unless you mean to beat it around as well.
3. PLAY! Work up to what you can comfortably handle. Fast paced strikes build up quickly, so take it slow at first. Squeezes panic some guys, like being claustrophobic or something, so go slowly. Some guys enjoy harder strikes better than light taps, so up the force a little if he's not feeling the right vibrations. Stay focused on each other and keep the talk open just in case either of you are unsure about anything. Eye contact, smiles, and kisses help feed the honest connection you hope to make.

A few things to consider: Encourage and help with striking - kicks, punches, knees, etc. before y'all start the game. Most ladies were never schooled in proper striking techniques so they would love to learn and feel comfortable. It's much more fun and pleasurable to strike correctly and accurately. It also elevates her confidence to know that you are helping her to become stronger and tougher.

Pointy toes and knuckles are much more dangerous than a flat foot or fist. Don't pull on the balls or twist the cords when squeezing. Try to work with a loose sack so that the balls' ability to move can absorb some of the force. Tight positions and clothes that only allow for crushing force are more dangerous with less power. You know what feels right in your body so make sure to speak up if you feel something hinky. Play well and have fun!