I legitimately hate the head canon that Grenda is Transfem

Most evidence that she is trans is:

1.She has a more masculine body
2.A very deep voice
3.Is mistaken for male or told her voice isn't feminine
4.Looks like a male
5.Etc

This head canon just comes as slimy to me, it creates the idea that masculine women don't exist as well as the very gross idea that Trans women have many deep voices and look incredibly masculine while wearing women clothing.

While some trans women do have deeper voice and don't pass well and are completely okay with that I'm not a huge fan of people saying she has to be Transfem because of these attributes