Does being a subby make me less of a man?

Hey so I'm a 21 year old submissive male who really enjoys femdom hentai and rp. I'm a switch too, but I've noticed I have massively less pleasure when I dom. I've always struggled with what felt right with my kinks, and recently I keep asking myself if I should try changing my kinks and sexual attractions to fit societal norms. Most women are submissive. Most men are dominant. Sometimes I just worry that I'm doing something I'm not supposed to. I haven't been in a relationship before, but Idk if I'll ever find a dominant female, especially since it's kinda taboo where I live (not comfortable sharing where that is online).

Sooo TLDR: the title