Sex is like mushrooms
First, not those mushrooms, I'm talking about the food only.
Sex averse = mushrooms are gross, they taste like erasers!
Sex neutral = I don't have an opinion on mushrooms
Sex positive = Mushrooms taste good!
Demisexual = I don't usually like mushrooms, but if I find one I like, it's my favorite food
Not a great analogy, but as a grey sex-positive, it's like, "I never crave mushrooms, but whenever I eat them, I'm like, 'damn, those are good, I should eat those more often!'"