My wife and I started playing around with chastity at the end of last summer. We are a long-term married couple that was trying to resolve some libido mismatch and make my wife more comfortable with intimacy. I've always had a lot of kinky interests, my wife was pure vanilla. She was interested in trying chastity though and being my keyholder. I've shared some actual sex and femdom stories from ho...
My wife, we’ll call her Raven, was always the toughest girl in school growing up. She was well known in Junior and Senior Highschool as the ballbuster. Not for any sexual reason, she was just quick to humble any boy that messed with her with a swift kick in the balls. I was never into that, but her confidence and dominance is definitely a quality that attracted me to her. While we knew each othe...
My wife continues to embrace her growing confidence as my keyholder. She has enjoyed all the bonding and service benefits chastity has provided. This month was the first time she actively played with her power in various ways and I'll share one story / update. She set a specific lock-up goal of 30 days. When I noted that was the longest that she has ordered yet, she threatened to make it 45 days. ...
I'd like to provide a 3 month review for a new FLR / chastity couple. My wife and I are in our early 40s with kids. I detail our story more in another post. She had some traumatic experiences with her pregnancies that turned her off to sex. We didn't have any other kind of intimacy because she so intrinsically connected that with leading to sex. We had become a dead bedroom. I introduced chastity ...
It had been a rough week. We had our first fight since we began our chastity journey. I didn't get any sleep that night, and I’ve been physically and emotionally recovering. We were at 21 days since my last release. A new record in our short history of chastity play. And as exhausted as I was, my sexual tension was at an all time high. It was the weekend. No reporting to work for two days, that ...
r/flr
2025-09-25
Experience
We had our first fight while in our new official FLR and chastity dynamic. It was over parenting, as it goes for married couples with kids. I won't dare go into details of the parenting conflict and let Reddit litigate that. I want to discuss what happened specifically with our chastity play. In the heat of the argument she took the key to my chastity cage off and threw it at my feet and said, “...
r/flr
2025-09-21
Male Perspective
My wife and I have always been unofficially in a FLR. We made it official a few months ago and wrote up a contract and began 24/7 chastity play. You can read my other post if you're curious how we arrived here. She is blossoming into her official dominant role and I wanted to share a nonsexual story of her exerting her control. This weekend we split duties between the kids. She stayed at a campgro...
I should start with some relationship context. My wife and I have been married for some time, we have school aged children. However both pregnancies were medically complicated situations that traumatized her. Even being naked around me she’d feel incredibly uncomfortable because it could lead to arousal that could lead to sex and more bad consequences (I was previously a dominant-initiating male...