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First it was ai dommes now it’s
https://www.instagram.com/reel/DP7mQnzgCOU/?igsh=MW9lZWJqZmtxdWsxcw== An ai band making a song to cater to foot fetishes 🤣🤣 What’s next? AI findom podcasts? Subspotify? (A premium subscription gets you free humiliation)?
Looking for a pre embryonic domme
Ideally my next domme hasn’t been consummated yet but she’s already planting the seeds for being dominant. Maybe it’s genetics? Or maybe it’s a “build-a-domme” type sitch where you can implant dominant genes into your conception? All those selfies and catchphrases like here piggy piggy should be natural ingrained into your offspring right? If you’re a pre embryonic domme then hit me ...
Do any subs struggle with being dommed by someone their own age?
Question for the subs…do you find you enjoy being dommed by a younger person or someone around the same age as you? My longtime and current domme is 13 years younger than me so we’ve always had that age gap power dynamic. She started to domme me when she was 21 and I was 34. Prior to her, my dommes were around 4-5 years younger than me but we were in our 20s so just figuring out adulthood toge...
The thrill is sorta gone - a reflection from a long time sub
Having been involved in findom/femdom for multiple decades I’ve definitely seen and dabbled in all aspects of the lifestyle. Lately I’ve found myself a bit withdrawn from it all. Not because of the lack of excitement, especially when a new domme or long time domme can push just the right buttons and play with your vulnerability, and wallet. Somehow, it’s just become not as thrilling as it us...
Lowest effort of the month club
In honor of U/deleted being our GSOAT (greatest sub of all time)….i think our lowest effort “dommes” deserve some recognition too. These dommes / doms have put so much time and effort into their search for a paypig that it’s almost exhausting trying to keep up with them. They spend days, months or even years achieving the lowest of karma. They contribute the bare minimum, comment on nothin...
New domme application
🚨 Update! A new domme has been found. Thank you all for your interest. 🚨 Hi - so…..it’s a bit of a weird position for me but my very longtime domme has moved on to a shiny new toy and doesn’t have much need for me anymore. :( She’s become sick of me randomly sending her money “just cause” and has no issues paying her bills and rent because she found a simp to do all of that and m...
Setting the record straight
Saw a thread recently that got me pretty angry. It accused anyone who didn’t instantly crumble to the ground from a kick as faking it. You can personally choose to like whatever type of ballbusting videos you like to watch. Whether that’s a one and done video where the guy is disabled from one kick or someone that literally takes 30 minutes of punishment. Everyone has a like or dislike and jus...
When I think about you, I….
So, does everyone remember that song by the DiVinyls (🎶 When I think about you I touch myself 🎶 I know it was out before some of you were even born so if you don’t know it, look it up 😂 Anyway - the appropriate change of lyrics would be “When i think about you I DOM myself…” Because in retrospect, 95% of the time I’m domming myself in any conversations I have with my domme. I an...
There’s no “winning” in findom.
I’ve been doing some self reflection recently and just putting some observations out there in case it’s helpful for anyone new or interested in the scene or struggling for self identity. 1) Findom is not a game to be won or conquered. There’s spikes of excitement, satisfaction and enjoyment, hits of adrenaline and lots of lows (mentally, financially, etc.) But there’s nothing to really win...
Psa: If you approach subs at least have something that says you’re like actually legit.
So, like any sub around here, we probably get our fair share of proactive DMs. Some are hysterical attempts at getting us to be a “pig”. Others just want to say hi or happen to like something we said (always appreciated). And some are poor attempts at being a domme and asking to play, or straight out asking for tribute. No matter the message, I always look at the profile first. How long has th...
All these dommes playing with their thrones
The findom support group sub has basically become Findom Pinterest with all the dommes going all out to decorate their throne wishlists. What are we subs doing to show our aesthetic? Backgammon boards? Dart boards? Monopoly boards? Let’s share some ideas 😂
Warning for subs
There are teens on TikTok gloating that they’re cat fishing “old” men on “the internet” and making thousands of dollars a week. They don’t say where but likely pretending they’re females or dommes or what not. Not sure how infiltrated Reddit is as of yet, but like any tiktok trend it’ll definitely make its way here. Just be very cautious about who you’re sending to before you eng...
Dommes need aftercare too
I’ve been having great conversation with an amazing domme here (shout out to: u/goddesscaraz) about the mental state of subs, and especially those who struggle to maintain a healthy balance between their real life and their sub life (something I’ve also struggled with). In the course of our conversation, we discussed the emotional effects of dealing with subs who are mentally taxing. Day in an...
What defines a domme
Not to sound like the old man on his rocking chair yelling Get Off My Porch, but I think there’s a lot of imposture syndrome going around (dommes and subs alike tbh). To be called a domme is an earned privilege. It means you are able to articulate and exert your dominance and will over any type of sub. It means someone has pledged loyalty to you. It means someone has not just acknowledged your e...
Slow down and you’ll be a better domme and sub
I’ve been chatting with a domme here who was struggling with ghosting. My advice - don’t rush into the dynamic . Of course there’s a huge adrenaline rush of meeting someone new. The excitement to play is palpable. But like any good first date you tend to divulge too much or use your best “material” early. And then what happens on the second or third date? You lose confidence and pretend ...
Is there a worse turn off than a desperate domme?
I mean this sincerely to all the dommes out there. (Most) subs don’t like desperate dommes. And if we do engage with you, it’s definitely not going to be worthwhile for you because the scales are already tipped in a subs favor. So, you’ll get some time wasting conversation, definitely scammers and those looking for a quick thrill without needing to do much. I cringe when I see this behavior ...
Lost pig
In recent news…is anyone here claiming it? 😂 A lost pig was found on Highway 401 near Maitland, Ontario, and was rescued by the Ontario Provincial Police (OPP). The pig, later named "Karma," was picked up by police officers and taken to a farm for temporary care before a permanent owner could be found. This incident highlights the surprising incidents that can occur on busy highways, like pig...
Small step in successfully resisting / ensuring you’re appreciated
So, I’ve known my domme for over 15 years. We have a great history and it’s well known to her she can bend me to her will, especially when she needs my help with bills or a purchase. Recently we haven’t played as much - a little bit because on both fronts. She’s been busy with life and hasn’t demanded much of my help. We had some deep and real conversations recently where I expressed my ...
supporting the recent graduate dommes
Are you a domme who recently graduated? No …not like an actual educational institution. Silly you. Talking about recent graduates of (insert random name of findom course university here). If so, have we got summer employment for you here at The PPF (The Pay Pig Farm). Yep, that’s right. Just like you paid for as part of your university training, there’s an actual farm for real pay pigs for y...
Keeping things “fresh” with your domme when you have a fixation
I saw an interesting post in the fdsg where there was conversation among dommes about fetish subs - are they good or are they annoying haha. As a sub with a few fetishes, I can vouch for becoming fetish obsessed and then paying up for “content” or having my domme use those fetishes against me - visually, physically and emotionally - both to my encouragement and financial dismay. Recently, I’...
Helpful advice: Findom is like gambling
Sometimes your investment pays off (in terms of whatever gets you off as part of being a sub). Sometimes you get nothing in return. So it’s sort of like a gamble, except you never recoup those dollars financially. Remember: Your currency is in return for your kink. So, whatever that return is for you (pics, verbal conversation, irl activities, etc.) you should always go into any domme transactio...
Headless dommes
All this talk about faceless dommes. Where are all the headless dommes? Like talking about giving me that Marie Antoinette energy. Have her subs all lined up in the gallows while she (gives?) Instructions type of domme.
Pay penguins
Random thought? Should there be a branch of secret subs that refer to themselves as ‘pay penguins’? This way we wouldn’t be stalked by the dommes who were “taught” to only go after paypigs. We can waddle our way through life on our own tariff free island choosing that special penguin partner. Shhh just don’t tell the dommes.
This place has become a pig sty
The mass influx of new and clueless dommes infiltrating our support groups (pay pig and findom equally). Bait posts from subs. Scammers who now have a desperate new influx of gullible “dommes” from those who learned about “findom” and “paypigs” from those bs TikTok dommes. That includes fake dommes and scams alike. Bible thumpers, soccer moms, pearl clutchers and other “holier than t...
Emma Watson heel smash
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Behind the shoot retrospective: Tiffany
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Let’s be safe out there
Lots of clowns out there. Literally. I got a dm from someone who was an active Reddit user for 1 hour - yes one hour - I saw they linked to their Instagram profile in their Reddit profile and it was obviously a scammer cause they had a clown face as their profile picture and no posts on a private page. I mean between these predators and all of the pretender dommes out there - y’all can’t compl...
Supporting dommes with relationships
Hey all. So I have been tinkering with finding someone new to embark on a findom experience with (caveat - I have a long time friend who I’ve been supporting financially wayyy way before findom was even a word in the vernacular). Anyway - for some reason I can’t get into those findommes that flaunt their current relationship and use that to ask a sub to pay for their date or do whatever with t...
