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Is it worth going to?

A friend came over this week ...

A friend came over this week ...

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43 M4F - looking for a new connection

Looking for a new connection. Nothing too serious ... just someone to chat with, share a drink with, see where it goes. Last time I got chatting with someone from here, she admitted she was just trolling ... so that was a little harsh. Looking for a female 30-50 years of age. Bonus points if you enjoy your feet being massaged and kissed. I've been told that I'm a 7 ... but my humour and personalit...

Busted by a stripper - Cher Paree, Montreal

Busted by a stripper

I'm at a conference this week, and after a day of training that was anything but useful, a couple of us headed out for a night on the town. After some time in in the back room with a vary busty brunette, I asked her if she had ever played rough with any of her clientele, consentually of course. She looked at me and asked what I had in mind. I shared that I enjoyed ballbusting and asked if she had ...

Hanging with KatKat

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Kicking O'Leary out

Anyone know Peterson's phone number? I'd love for him to come grab his boyfriend O'Leary and haul his ass out of Canada for good as well.

42 M4F - this is a bit of a read

***Hello there.*** As us guys slowly learn that a two sentence post rarely captures the your attention, here is my try at doing a little more. ***Allow myself to introduce ... myself.*** Appearance - 42 years old, 5'8", dad bod and working on rolling that back. I'm clean shaven above the shoulders and nicely trimmed below. My teeth have gone through invisalign treatment. My feet likely need anothe...

Pics from Ontario

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Ladies of ARAD, does a redditor's comment history determine if you will respond to a chat request from them?

I comment on in a lot of NSFW subs and wondering if it's preventing me from getting responses.

What add-ons are worth it?

I've just finished my second playthrough of the base game. And I don't want to put the controller down yet, but I'm not sure what to get. For those of you that have played them, what are the better add-ons to get? The price tag through Xbox is such that you're paying for almost an entire game. And if you get all three, that's a hefty penny. Are you getting three full games? Were you getting only 2...

42 M4F - use my balls for your stress relief

Over the last couple of months I've lost my FWB when it comes to ballbusting and I'm hoping to find a new play partner. I've been playing this way for over 20 years and am happy to meet with someone who has lots of experience, or someone that is new to it and wanting to try it out. Looking for a female 25-50 years of age. Ethnicity doesn't matter. Weight only matters if you want to try stepping on...

42M4F - Looking to give your feet some attention

Would you like to have your feet appreciated? A massage at the end of the long day ... or before you head out for the night. Working out the pain in your arches and your calves. Or a pair of heels you want to show off to someone who will appreciate them as much as you do? I would be happy to do just that for you. You don't need to be dominant or submissive. I just hope you have an interest in your...

42M4F - Looking to give your feet some attention

Would you look like to have your feet appreciated? A massage at the end of the long day ... or before you head out for the night. Working out the pain in your arches and your calves. Or a pair of heels you want to show off to someone who will appreciate them as much as you do? I would be happy to do just that for you. You don't need to be dominant or submissive. I just hope you have an interest in...

Rats Swarms

DAMN YOU!!! Just about finished a river raid too!

41M - Looking to chat during the work day

Most of my days are spent at my computer working for my clients. This means that I'm often looking for short distractions during the day to break up the monotony of it all. Looking for someone around my age. Happy to talk about life, the achievements we have, the goals we are still looking to pursue. Got a situation you need help with, I've been told I'm a good listener. Need to vent a little, hap...

New heels

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Men - do you get pedicures?

Sitting down for my semi annual pedicure right now. Looking forward to some smooth feet. Do you go?

It's the morning after a ONS and you forgot to go home ... what do you do?

* Sneak out before they wake up? * Start making breakfast? * Fall back asleep because the bed is comfy? * Call your mom and tell them you are in love? * .........

Lunch time fun

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Have you tried any of the AI chat programs

This weekend I was a little bored and gave into one of the AI chat systems. It set me up with 3 conversations ... an ex that came back, a colleague that is flirty, and a step-sister that is visiting. Each had their own back story which hinted that you would be able to play with them, but had a personality to force you to work for is somewhat. The step-sis I swear was bi-polar as she wanted to enga...

Constructive advice for FWB

I'm just coming from my FWBs and need to give her some advice, but don't want to screw up the dynamic. Her BJs are great for getting me close. She loves to drop throat. She pays attention to the balls and the shaft. It's great, until I get 98% of the way there. When she can tell I'm close, she locks into receiving mode and just plays with the tip. Meanwhile is been the attention to the base of the...

For the LEGO lovers out there ... what is your favourite set?

Need an after work drinks recommendation

Meeting with a prospective client for after work drinks and apps this week. Nothing too datey ... but still nice to be at. I'm not from town so hoping you can help me out.

Two sessions this week

On Thursday, I'm heading to a new play partner and teaching her how to bust. On Wednesday, I'm heading to my current play partner for a session. She's looking for recommendations for the session as she wants to think less this time and have me top from the bottom. Any recommendations for the session on Wednesday? She loves her knees and applying pressure. And has a few beautiful pairs of stiletto ...

Last weeks session

I got to my Domme's and she's sitting in a leather bra and leather pants with her pleasure heels close by. Black and red 6" stiletto heels. She starts by giving me an idea of what the afternoon will entail ... she wants to start with trampling as she knows it is something she enjoys while I can't take much of, she wants to use her pleasure heels early on in the session, she also wants to do hundre...

AITA for allowing my friend to push me away.

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40 [M4F] on the road

On the road today coming home from the President's Cup (golf) with friends. Riding in the backseat and bored. Please say hi if you want to chat.

What fetish/kink are you afraid to try?

Second-hand heels in Canada

I'm looking by find some discounted heels for a play partner. We're having some difficulty finding the right size for her and hoping the community can point me toward places I don't know about yet. Thanks.

What sites sell second-hand heels for delivery in Canada?

Second hand heels - Canada

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39 [M4F] Canadian Looking for New Friends

Been a while since I've jumped on here ... and looking for some new people to talk to. Star Wars, LOTR, Disney and MCU are movies I enjoy. John Grisham is my favourite author. Financial planning is what I do. Ultimate frisbee, skiing, and music are my hobbies. Hopefully something in there will give us a topic to start with.

39[M4F] - That didn't go as planned

Next week I'm heading out for a vacation with friends. On Saturday night, the guys got together for a beer challenge. We each brought three beers to the challenge and blind tasted them all and guessed what order we drank them in. I couldn't even guess my own three beers right. Sadly I lost the been tasting challenge. Not only does this leave me questioning my ability to identify as a beer snob any...

Selling personal Insurance to a corporation

A buddy of mine was telling me over the weekend that he sold his personal life insurance to his corporation as there is tax benefits for it. I understand the tax benefits for it, I'm trying to figure out how to do it though. Is this something my accountant is supposed to know how to do or am I going back to the insurance guy? Also - can I put my wife's life insurance in there as well? Are there an...

39 [M4F] Die Hard is a Christmas movie

Not only that ... it's one of the BEST Christmas movies, Hans down. If you agree - yippee ki yay let's talk. If you disagree - Buu-be, give me 3 reasons why you think it isn't one.

39 [M4F] Canadian nursing a hamstring back to health

I tore my hamstring in September playing ultimate. I retore in recently playing baseball in the end of year tournament. Now I'm looking for a chat buddy or two as I nurse it back to health.

Credit card for my business - Ontario

What's the best option for a credit card for my business? I'm a sole proprietor and just need to separate at the finances. I know a lot have cash back options and no fee options and all the rest. Is there a website that explains all this?

38 [M4F] Canadian Looking to Chat

Just looking to chat with people as we are slowly coming out of the lockdowns Some dumb things I've done that sound worse than the stories behind them ... * I've been married twice * Fired from jobs twice * Arrested once * Attacked by lions once Feel free to ask about any of them to start. About me ... * Married, no kids * 21 koi fish in my backyard pond * Ultimate enthusiast * Craft beer and whis...

Our US Open sample pack

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I (38M) just became her (24F) new busting buddy

She and I had met up a couple times before to test the waters. She had drilled me with a couple knees before but nothing much. We had been talking for a while about getting together but covid had delayed the plans a few time. With a couple negative tests in hand, we planned it out and got together last Thursday. After chatting a bit about life, we found the couch to talk out the busting plan for t...

I (38M) became her (24F) new busting buddy last week

Her and I had met up a couple times before to test the waters. She had drilled me with a couple knees before but nothing much. We had been talking for a while about getting together but covid had delayed the plans a few time. With a couple negative tests in hand, we planned it out and got together last Thursday. After chatting a bit about life, we found the couch to talk out the busting plan for t...

Cute heels placed just right

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Funny

A night I haven't forgotten

This goes back a few years, but a fun story to share. An FWB needed a date for her Christmas Party and called me up. As luck would have it, I needed one for mine as well. So we agreed to be each other's date for the parties. Her party was first so I drove over on Friday afternoon and we headed out shopping. She wanted a new dress and heels for the party, and I was planning on getting a tie that ma...

Rope Bra

The tenacity

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