Supporting dommes with relationships

Hey all. So I have been tinkering with finding someone new to embark on a findom experience with (caveat - I have a long time friend who I’ve been supporting financially wayyy way before findom was even a word in the vernacular).

Anyway - for some reason I can’t get into those findommes that flaunt their current relationship and use that to ask a sub to pay for their date or do whatever with their man. I mean I get it - the cuck thing turns a lot of people on and who am I to judge. Also as humans we crave and desire relationships so good for her for having one, especially a trusting one where her partner knows she’s hustling for side money (again, I briefly dated a stripper so no judgement here on that front).

I applaud and support anyone who wants to participate in this lifestyle. But for some reason I just lose the will to offer my initial sub support right off the bat if they’re flaunting their partner.

Is it just me? Or do others feel this way? And what factors would make you overcome those feelings (of not wanting to support)?