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Domme appreciation post - it’s ok to cool a sub down

Sometimes us subs relapse. And if you work with a domme or friend who findoms you long enough they’ll know when you need to cool down.

It could be a message when you’re high or drunk, or just the perceived tone in your DMs but any good domme knows when their sub is itching to pay up. And as a domme you don’t always need to play along.

Because sometimes you need time to yourself too or you don’t feel like playing along and scratching the itch of us subs.

And as a sub we need to respect and understand that our dommes don’t always want to play along.

It’s not always about having a whale or getting daily admiration / payment. Sometimes you just need to let your sub cool off and they’ll definitely reward you in the long run or whenever you feel like re engaging.

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