Keeping things “fresh” with your domme when you have a fixation

I saw an interesting post in the fdsg where there was conversation among dommes about fetish subs - are they good or are they annoying haha.

As a sub with a few fetishes, I can vouch for becoming fetish obsessed and then paying up for “content” or having my domme use those fetishes against me - visually, physically and emotionally - both to my encouragement and financial dismay.

Recently, I’ve had long and deep convos with my long time domme friend where i acknowledged I had at times become too focused and attached to body parts of her, instead of her whole self. I love who she is as a person first and foremost. And I want her to live her best life and as her loyal sub it’s my responsibility and duty to help her when needed.

However, mentally, the desire to be dommed or the fetishes I have takes over my brain and as a sub you crave that dopamine (whether it’s a leg, shoe, foot, ass, etc.)

However I didn’t know I was being annoying or goading with her to appease my fetishes until she said so and since then I’ve been more respectful and understanding of her position (granted she’s more a brat than domme but that’s another story lol)

So, she has become good about shutting me down/cooling me off when I’m being annoying or trying to get her to domme me. But, conversely, she also knows when to appease me when she’s feeling playful or how to push my buttons when she needs something more significant financially.

From my perspective it’s a little fun and a little dangerous for my domme to know she always has that dynamic in her “back pocket” with me. Our relationship may ebb and flow over the years but one triggering pic or text and I’m fully back in line with her, particularly whenever she needs something from me.

But, perhaps from a dommes perspective appeasing that fetish from a sub can get monotonous and stale. Hence why us subs tend to drift and become attracted to other dommes to play with to scratch our itch.

For the dommes - If a sub is being annoying or too demanding tell him. Yes, the money may flow easily at first, but if you have mutual respect for your sub that will make your relationship stronger, or at ensure you have some control in the dynamic. Otherwise, how do you deal with a sub with a fetish? Is it annoying or what are your thoughts?

For my fellow subs - do you push your dommes to appease your fetish? Or how do you avoid things from getting stale? There’s only so many pics or threats you can get from the same domme before you “domme yourself” on their behalf lol so curious what tactics you use to keep things fresh for both parties?