Self-Affirmations for solo subs

I had these for a bigger writing on fetlife: do they make sense to those of you who are subs and solo?

1. You have value beyond your utility
2. Nobody else defines the terms of your submission
3. there is nobody you can’t say no to.
4. not everything is someone’s fault.
3. You are no less valued for being ‘unowned’
4. its ok to be sad
5. its ok to doubt
6. be kind and demand kindness
7. honour your worth
8. you are nobody’s inferior
9. dominants are only human
10. reality is a relative concept
11. you are not accountable for the actions of others