Our First Argument

We had our first fight while in our new official FLR and chastity dynamic. It was over parenting, as it goes for married couples with kids.

I won't dare go into details of the parenting conflict and let Reddit litigate that. I want to discuss what happened specifically with our chastity play.

In the heat of the argument she took the key to my chastity cage off and threw it at my feet and said, “I don't think you're going to be in a mood to be nice to me so you can have this.”

That really upset me. I did unlock that evening and slept in the guestroom by myself. I didn't do anything as far as masturbation goes, wasn't in the mood and in my mind my devotion and commitment to our relationship and dynamic goes deeper than an argument.

The next morning we talked it out. She apologized and admitted she was in the wrong. I told her how using the key as leverage in a parenting disagreement hurt and I needed a break from the cage. She understood and when I left for work we had reached neutral feelings.

I had thought about things during the workday. I appreciate how we can always come back together. This time was different though, previous to our official FLR/chastity agreement when we got in arguments regardless of who was in the right or wrong, she dug in, never moved an inch, and we only got over things when I made amends.

The fact that the next morning she was apologizing to me and using the language she did. It felt like she was opening up and being more vulnerable than ever. As if she trusted me more now after I’ve been focused on her.

When I got home, I put the chastity cage back on and joined my wife at the kitchen table. Ensuring to sit in the chair she designated for me to sit next to her, it's a subtle signal of submission she understands. We had a nice conversation and caught up on the day.

Then I got on my knees and put my head in her lap. She ran her fingers through my hair and said:

“We could go cuddle on the couch, if you want.”

I lifted my hand up and placed the key to the chastity device in her hand and said:

“Only if you lead the way.”

She grabbed my hand, kissed it, smiled, cried, and put the key necklace around her neck. Then we got up and went and snuggled on the couch for the rest of the night.