How to be a better sub in the community.

Something that’s been on my mind a lot is that a lot of advice given to subs is how they can be a better servant to their dominant, but there’s little advice for how to be better members of the community.

It’s something I’ve noticed especially among male subs, who can be quite isolated and easily exploited by unethical dommes.

The thought came to mind when I saw some Domme or other asking “should a dominant apologise to her subs when she makes a mistake?” And the sheer number of people agreeing well that a Domme never needs to apologise was depressing.

So how can a sub be a better member of the community, not just a better sub to their Domme?