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Do any subs struggle with being dommed by someone their own age?

Question for the subs…do you find you enjoy being dommed by a younger person or someone around the same age as you?

My longtime and current domme is 13 years younger than me so we’ve always had that age gap power dynamic. She started to domme me when she was 21 and I was 34. Prior to her, my dommes were around 4-5 years younger than me but we were in our 20s so just figuring out adulthood together. From a physical perspective I’ve definitely been physically dominated by older women or women my age, but emotionally/financially it’s always been by someone younger.

Was just curious as someone who is older in life (late 40s) and don’t know if I’d ever want to be dominated by someone (financially, emotionally, and now even physically) within a few years of me as a personal preference. Maybe it’s the power dynamic that plays into it more… a younger person taking you down. But was just curious if other subs struggled with that or as well?