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Chastity and Astrology

Do you think astrological details can make a person more or less likely to try chastity? Today the sun is in the zodiac sign Cancer, the crab. If you ask an astrologer, you might find that men who were born with the sun in Cancer have a penchant for chastity, because enforced chastity is the practice of locking up your vulnerable soft parts inside a hard protective shell. That's not to mention the...

A Bit of Flash Fiction

“Oh, that jar? He was one of my first patients. He couldn’t compare to his wife’s lover in the bedroom, so she brought him to me for treatment. He begged, cried and pleaded. He even ate out my ass, just to try and motivate me to reconsider! But in the end I had a job to do and no matter what he thought, the glands between his legs had belonged to me since the moment he had walked into my cli...

Need help finding a brand of women's jeans

I want to find a brand of womens' jeans that had little funny cartoons on the tags. I recall specifically one of the tags for a pair of XS jeans had a cartoon of a man going down on a woman. This brand may no longer exist as I recall seeing them being sold used. Please help me, I can't for the life of me recall the name!

Do you have to keep some fantasies secret in order not to scare a dom?

Subs sometimes have scary or extreme fantasies. Do you find that some of yours are 'too far' to the point where it can scare a partner away? Or is the typical dom (male or female) open minded enough that you can tell her whatever you like? Assuming she can be trusted to play safe. In particular I have a recurrent non-con castration fantasy. Is this something common enough in male subs that it's no...

How can I be attractive as a sub? Am I even a sub? Confused.

Hi everyone. I want to get something off of my chest, and see if anyone can advise me. I posted something similar to r/gentlefemdom a few months ago, full disclosure. I'm 25 years old, straight, male and have never been in bed with anybody. Since my early teens I have had a femdom fetish, but I have never asked any woman I've dated to try it with me. As time goes on I find this fetish becoming mor...

What does a chastity cage color mean to you?

I need to buy a new device for Locktober and I am deciding between the light blue and pink options from kink3d. I have a hard time deciding, so I wonder, what do you think is the message each of these colors send? I like pink because I think it's an intimate, sexy color, but I fear coming across as a narcissistic 'sissy'. On the other hand I have no impression of light blue. What do you think some...

How can I find my attractive energy?

Hi everybody. I want to get something off of my chest, and see if anyone can advise me. My apologies if this is long; it is hard to collect my thoughts. I'm 25 years old, straight, male and have never been in bed with anybody. Since my early teens I have had a femdom fetish, but I have never asked any woman I've dated to try it with me. As time goes on I find this fetish becoming more ingrained an...

How can I engage with femininity to become more attractive

I am a straight man who has been single my whole life - I'm 25 now. I'm at a point where I don't feel like it's easy for women to be attracted to me, where I don't meet many women, and where, when I get a date, I often don't feel like I have a sexual energy with her. I feel like I bore her, and don't attract her. Parallel to that, I have an interest in being feminine. I like to wear some feminine ...

Questions about kink3d fitting events

I am considering going to a kink3d chastity fitting event near me. Has anyone here been to one of these? If so, how do they work? Do you get more expert fitting advice than if you buy online? Are you obligated to buy once fitted? (I had a k3d device but I was never sure about fit as my method was to stick with the first one I could wear for some time, even if it may not have been optimal.)

Did I screw up by telling my esthetician?

I (m24) used to get Brazilian waxes for aesthetic reasons and to make chastity more comfortable when I wore it. In October 2023, I had a waxing appointment while I was wearing a chastity device for Locktober. As I disrobed I removed my chastity device and hid it in my bag, so my esthetician couldn't see it. When she was done waxing me I impulsively told her that I had been wearing a male chastity ...

Conflicted feelings - can I get some advice?

Hi, I (24m) am straight but have never had a girlfriend. In my time being single I have discovered some things about my sexuality, namely that I get excited from feeling and looking feminine and also that I get excited from having power taken away from me (I'll spare you the details). I have also developed a real difficulty feeling sexy. In order to attract compatible women and also so that I can ...

Frustrated - any advice for me?

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What "languages," in the modern sense, were spoken in Medieval Europe?

I'm writing some fiction set in Iberia circa 1100 AD. I need to know about which languages were spoken in Europe at that time. The contiguous area where indo-european languages were spoken naturally forms a linguistic continuum; thus if you wanted you could divide languages very finely or more coarsely. What I would be interested in would be a list of languages, not mutually intelligible with each...